Last week my boyfriend and I came to the decision that whenever I demand to be eaten out, he must comply. This is all consensual of course, and a huge kink for both of us. I love to be in control in our relationship and this to me is the ultimate form of control. I’ll text him that I’m ready for him while he’s playing video games or when he’s in the living room watching TV. I’ll try to get him when he least expects it, and it’s a rule that he must find me within five minutes and start eating me out right away. I’m usually in bed, already wet and ready for him. I’ll usually be watching porn and/or reading over texts that I’ve exchanged with boys I’ve met on Reddit while he’s eating me out. He tries to make eye contact with me while he’s eating me out, but I always tell him to close his eyes so that I can focus.
Once I climax, he then must take a towel and clean me up down there. I pat him on the head, tell him he’s a good boy, and go about my day, feeling pleasured and satisfied. Is this an ok thing to do in a relationship? Keep in mind that he absolutely loves it and jerks off after I leave the room :)