My boyfriend and his dad have been tricking me into group sex….But I’m not mad about it???

Hi! Long time lurker here and I wanted to share something that i haven’t told any irl friends. Seems like the appropriate place for it!

Okay so first here’s the context. I (22F) have been dating my boyfriend (25m) for 2 years now. We met in college, he’s great, we love each other, things are going well and we are planning to move in together when my current lease is up.

About 2-3 months into the relationship I met my boyfriends dad (late 40s m) and it was a very standard “keep my boy out of trouble” type thing. He was very nice to me. Nothing was weird about his behavior or anything. Typical dad stuff.

Another few months passed and I barley had any interaction with his dad besides seeing each other in passing. We did exchange phone numbers just so he could reach me if my boyfriend wasn’t answering or whatever - but again, we never called or texted or anything. Until one afternoon I was driving home from class and I got a flat tire. I called my boyfriend but he was out of town and told me I should call his dad. My own family lives far away and none of my friends here know how to change a tire so I decided to take my boyfriends advice and call his dad. Thankfully he wasnt busy and was happy to help. He came and changed my tire to the spare for me and he even offered to go with me to the tire store. I know nothing about cars so I took him up on his offer!

We went to the tire store together and he spoke to the technicians for me. As we waited for them to fix my tire he and I talked and got to know each other a bit more. I knew my boyfriends father was a widow, but his wife died when my boyfriend was very young so I didn’t know too many details about it and I wasn’t going to ask. His father really opened up about it though, and for a brief moment I found myself wanting to console him. The way he spoke about his wife I could tell he was very much still in love with her and it broke my heart.

Even after my tire had been fixed we kept talking and it got close to dinner time. He offered to get me dinner and I accepted. We went to a bar nearby and had some food and drinks. Continued talking til about 8pm. It was a fun night and it felt really good to connect with my boyfriends father and get to know more about him. I’m not that close with my own father so it was nice feeling like I had a father figure like him to rely on. He’s funny, a good father to my boyfriend and just overall a great man. As we went to part ways i felt myself feeling very attracted to him. He does look almost exactly like my boyfriend after all, just more mature. Without even realizing it I had thanked him for his help and gave him a kiss on the cheek. He returned it by kissing me on my mouth. We got into it for a split second but he pulled away, apologized, and asked me to keep this between us. I agreed that was best and we didn’t talk about it ever again after that….but I definitely thought about it.

Fast forward about a year into the relationship. Nothing happened between me and his father after that kiss. We were a bit closer and I’d come over with my boyfriend to visit more often. His father also started referring to me as “honey, sweetheart, princess” etc but I honestly didn’t mind it. Besides that nothing was going on between us.

At some point my boyfriend got good news about a job he wanted so we spent a weekend celebrating with his friends and family. One of those nights we celebrated with his dad at his home, got a really drunk together, and I honestly don’t remember most of details that night lol. I do however vaguely remember going to the bathroom and running into my boyfriends dad. The memory is foggy, but I was almost certain we made out and he fingered me right there in the bathroom. However, I also remember having sex with my boyfriend that night and i woke up in bed with him. Given they look so much alike I didn’t really question it and decided it was probably my boyfriend who fingered me and not his dad. When I asked him if he fingered me in the bathroom he laughed and was like, “i mean yeah, probably.”

I would’ve forgotten all about it but something was different about his dad at breakfast that morning. He kept looking at me, smiling. His behavior felt a much more flirty than it had in the past. He wasn’t creepy or anything, but I could feel his gaze and from that moment on there has definitely been a sexual tension between us.

Before you call me a slut, I’ve never made a move on my boyfriends dad or anything like that outside the one kiss. There was just an attraction between us and I knew he felt it too. But I’m obviously in love with my boyfriend so I never made it weird or talked to him about it. A small part of me LOVED the tension and I think that’s why I just left it alone. It’s fun to be flirted with sometimes and he wasn’t disrespectful or over the top about it. It was like a dirty little secret I’d touch myself to at times and I made my peace with it.

About 4-5 months later his dad got a new hot tub so we went to visit and try it out. We all got super drunk again lol. I don’t recall having sex that night but I could definitely *feel* it the next morning. Also I woke up in bed next to my boyfriends dad, with my boyfriend passed out on the floor next to us. I was a little freaked out. I went to freshen myself up and found I had semen in both my vagina and in my ass.

I remained calm. I woke up my boyfriend and told him that I had semen in both holes and he told me that we had sex multiple times that night and not to worry about it. I asked why his dad was in bed with me and he said he doesn’t remember much that we probably all just crashed.

I was skeptical of his answers but for some reason I decided to believe him. We do have a lot of sex, including anal sex, and he has a creampie fetish so it wasn’t like this was something out of the ordinary for him to do. Maybe it was because I worried it was *me* who initiated it with his dad which would mean I had cheated. As I said, I was definitely attracted to his dad and while I wouldn’t do anything with him I was very drunk so it’s totally possible we did stuff. I brought it up a few more times with my boyfriend but he reassured me everything is okay. I decided to drop it.

There were some other occasions we spent the night at his dads like this, but those two were the only ones i remember feeling suspicious.

One night about 4-5 weeks ago this was all stewing inside me though, I had felt so guilty so I called his dad to just ask him about it. I just needed to know. He didn’t answer so I decided go for a drive to clear my head. While I was out I figured I’d drive passed his house to see if he’s home. To my surprise his truck was there but so was my boyfriends, which was odd because he told me he was out with friends.

I pulled in the drive and walked around the back of the house which is where we usually enter. The door was unlocked so I went inside and immediately heard very loud grunting sounds coming from his dads bedroom. It was definitely my boyfriend and his dad, and it sounded like they were working out or something. And that’s when I caught them. I locked eyes with my boyfriend who was bent over on his dads bed taking it up the ass!! From his dad!!!

I screamed and immediately dashed out the door. I could hear my boyfriend yelling for me to wait. I got in my car to leave but I was in such shock I couldn’t bring myself to put the keys in the ignition. I was frozen. My boyfriend ran outside with nothing but basketball shorts on. He begged me to let him in and explain. After a minute or two I decided to hear him out.

He got in and began to apologize profusely. He explained to me that he and his dad have always been very close and a few years ago they started hooking up together on occasion. He told me it was something they were doing before he met me, and that it ultimately means nothing. He said he loves me. He wants me. He apologized for continuing to do it after meeting me and promised me that it’ll never happen again and that he is devoted to me etc. I was honestly in too much shock to even respond to him. That’s when his dad came outside. He told us both to get inside so we can talk about this together.

We went inside and his father was honest and told me everything. He told me that yes, he and I have had sex multiple times He also confirmed he was the one who fingered me at that party several months prior. He also shared with me that his son was aware that we were hooking up the whole time, even knew about the kiss, and that we’ve all had sex together more than once which means there are times we’ve all had sex I don’t even remember at all. He admitted to keeping the sexual relationship with his son a secret from me, but said he honestly thought i knew him and I had sex because of how often we flirted together. “I just thought you were shy and wanted to keep it kinda hush-hush so I didn’t push it” My boyfriend added that it’s all his fault and that he should’ve told me everything.

I was appalled. I cried. I felt gross and taken advantage of. Here I was feeling guilty for being attracted to my boyfriends dad, possibly cheating with him, and it was actually me who was being taken advantage of the whole time. I lashed out at them both. I slapped my boyfriend. Screamed at his dad. They both let me vent and get it all out.

Tbh I was ready to just walk out and even briefly considered pressing charges against them both - but as we talked about it more I found myself, somehow, getting aroused by the whole situation. Like, extremely aroused. I couldn’t explain it but i found myself looking at them both and being struck with this intense desire. I finally just said fuck it “if you guys both wanted to fuck me you could’ve just asked instead of getting me shit faced.”

The dumb looks on their faces were a mix of shame and surprise. They continued to apologize to me, asked how they can make it right etc. I decided to just take the lead. I got up and sat in my boyfriends dads lap and began to kiss him. The room got quiet. I pulled away and looked at my boyfriend, I asked him how it made him feel to see his girlfriend kiss his dad. He nervously responded saying it really turns him on. His dad grabbed my ass and slapped it, hard. Then he told his son to eat me out while we continued to kiss….you can imagine the rest lol.

Since that night the dynamic has been….interesting. I’ve lost count how many times we’ve all had sex. We’ve spent several nights at his dads house since then and my bf has even encouraged me to go out with his dad 1-on-1 which I have a few times. Some nights I’m just with my boyfriend, other nights I’m with his dad, some nights I watch while they are together but most nights they both fuck me together and it’s extremely hot!

Last night I was with my boyfriend and he told me I’m the most amazing woman ever and he can’t thank me enough for standing by him and being open and supportive of all this. We’ve said “I love you” several times but this time when he said it I really *felt* it, ya know? I’ve decided to forgive him for not being honest about it and he promised to never hide something like this from me again. Things feel good. I know I probably *should* be mad, but I’m honestly happy with the outcome.

Anyway, this situation is obviously out there, but at this point I’m kinda just riding the wave and having fun with it? I effectively have two boyfriends now. Also I’m ngl, I never gave it much thought before, but seeing them do stuff together is extremely hot to me. It unlocked some kind of new fetish in me! Maybe it’s just the sheer absurd nature of it all that makes it attractive? Maybe I’ll eventually get tired of it but for now it’s extremely hot. Hands down the most kinky and satisfying my sex life has ever been!

Has anyone here experienced something similar to this? Is this whole situation just fucked and I should leave lmao? Does it even matter if it’s fucked if I’m enjoying myself? Thanks for reading!