My wife (43F) and I (44M) have been married for more than 20 years. I've always had a very high sex drive (I get myself off at least once or twice a day) and my wife's has gone steadily downhill since we've been together. After lots of frustrated conversations, we mutually decided to open up our relationship about 5 years ago. Neither of us were really tied to monogamy, and it did wonders to take the pressure off our relationship. A few years ago, we moved to a small town and it became a struggle to find interested partners. I gave up pretty soon after we moved and just accepted a life with much less sex. However, in the last couple years my wife's sex drive has been literally non-existent, and I get off on my sexual partner enjoying themself. Since my wife wasn't interested, neither was I. I've met up with a couple old flings while away on work trips, but other than that have been completely sexless for the last two years.
A bit desperate, I re-installed Tinder hoping to find a partner in one of the nearby larger cities. I wasn't thrilled about driving an hour to hook up, but like I said, it was getting bleak. I matched with a couple folks that were pretty lukewarm maybes. But after a few days, I recognized my coworker who we'll call Lydia (35F). Lydia is far away the hottest person at work, an absolute 10/10 bombshell with a petite frame and incredible features. We work in different adjacent buildings, so we rarely see each other and had never had a conversation about anything other than work. I've always eyed her when she walked past (who could resist!?) but just assumed she was married like everyone else in our small town, and I had absolutely no interest in flirting with a coworker. It's always creepy, especially when you're really aiming up the looks ladder like I would be with her. I'm not an ugly guy, but nothing special. Dad bod, plain dresser, maybe a 6 on a good day.
I couldn't resist the temptation and swiped on her, only to see that it was a match! I've matched with coworkers in the past and it's always just ended in a playful "Haha, you're on here too huh? Good luck out there and see you at work next week!" I expected nothing less with Lydia, and that was the vibe I was getting from her at first. Oh well, as to be expected. But as we kept talking, it was clear she was at least interested in learning a bit more about me. We chatted back and forth for a few hours, and by the end of the day it was obvious that she wasn't just swiping on me for a quick laugh. We're both smart people, and could plainly see that it was a terrible idea for us to hook up as coworkers, but that was a huge turn on for us both.
Within two days, I was at her front door and she answered it in a silk slip and crotchless fishnet lingerie. We were fucking within a minute. The sexual chemistry between us was incredible. That first night I came three times, and we didn't even try keeping count of her orgasms. We figure it was at least two dozen.
We've been fucking a couple times a week since then, and it's absolutely magical. She's incredibly submissive and I like being dominant, so we're just two peas in a pod. Every time I see her naked body I'm just floored that a guy like me could land someone like her. It drives me wild when she flashes me the "fuck me" eyes while walking past my desk, and I love thinking about all the different ways I've been inside her when I see her talking to other colleagues. She even blew me at my desk while we were alone in the office and I've never cum that fast in my life.
Thing is, I have literally no one in my life to talk to about it! My partner doesn't really want to hear about my sex life outside our marriage, and my friends aren't the kind of guys to really talk about sex. We're all just a bunch of nerds who would rather talk about politics or hobbies. We're all in relationships, it's just not something we talk about. I'm not even out as being in an open relationship with most of them. I feel like I'm living an absolute fantasy and I just have to keep it to myself! So now I'm just putting it out here so that at least SOMEONE else can hear about it!