I never used to think about it too much. I just figured that some guys were into it and some weren't. But lately, it's been bothering me more and more. Why do some guys only want to receive head and not eat me out?
I'm 32 now and I've been with a fair number of men. I've always been a sexual person and I enjoy trying some really wild stuff. But there's something about having my pussy licked that just feels so damn good. It's like the ultimate form of intimacy for me. And yet, so many guys seem to be turned off by it.
In fact, I've had quite a few guys tell me that they don't like going down on women at all. I always used to ask them why, since they were more than happy to demand blowjobs from me. Some of them say that they just don't like the taste or the smell. I mean, I think my pussy tastes just fine, thank you very much! I've tasted it myself. Others say that it's too messy or that it's just not their thing. And then there are the ones who say that they only do it as a favor to their partner, but they don't actually enjoy it.
I just don't get it. I mean, I know that not everyone is the same and that people have different preferences. But it seems like most guys expect me to give them head without even considering returning the favor. And that just seems unfair to me.
I've tried to be understanding and not make a big deal out of it. But the truth is, it really bothers me. I feel like I'm not being valued or appreciated for who I am as a sexual being. And that's not how I want to be treated.
In my opinion, there's nothing better than making a guy feel good by going down on him, and I think that the same goes for women. Oral sex can be incredibly pleasurable for both parties involved, and I think that more men should be willing to try it.
So, to all the men out there who only want to give head and not eat pussy, I have to ask: why? Why do you do this?
I know that I'm not alone in feeling this way. And I know that there are plenty of guys out there who do appreciate the joys of eating pussy. But for the ones who don't, I just want to know why.