I was asked to fuck my commander while her husband watched.

So I was in the army (m 20) and I was stationed in El Paso TX at Fort Bliss. I was assigned to a new unit, one that was built from scratch. I went through the ranks and made Sargent pretty fast within 2 years. We ended up getting a new female commander and no one knew anything about her other than she moved from New York. I met her on her first day she arrived at our unit. She looked decent, obviously older (around late 30s early 40s), small frame, white skin with wavy brown hair/slightly gray. She had a southern accent and was very polite. I got assigned to be her driver and drove her in a humvee and a Bradley. We drove a lot and got familiar with each other. We ended up joking and have like minded dark humor. We ended up sleeping in the same 4 man tent. Just the two of us, she said she didn't feel comfortable with others around. It was late as hell one night, and I was listening to the radio for Mission traffic. I lit a cigarette which I knew she hated due to her quitting and