I attempted the rubber hand illusion on a guy who hadn't nutted in four days and I owe him an apology

So I fell down a rabbit hole online about how you can apparently make a guy cum with ZERO physical contact, purely mental stimulation, and I did not believe it for one second but I also could not stop thinking about it and those two things together are a dangerous combination for everyone around me lol.

Someone in the comments mentioned the rubber hand illusion which is this psychology thing where you trick your brain into feeling sensations in a fake hand by touching the real hand and a fake hand simultaneously until the brain makes the association and starts registering the fake one as real, and apparently the same principle could theoretically apply to other body parts with the right setup and I was like. I need to try this on someone immediately.

My friend has this 19 year old guy in her life who has had an obvious thing for me forever, always finding excuses to be around, staring, the whole routine. Sweet, cute, also a virgin which felt scientifically relevant because less established neural pathways or whatever, I took one psychology class and I am absolutely running with it 😭

I texted him and said don't touch yourself for four days and come over Saturday. No explanation. He said okay within thirty seconds which honestly tells you everything you need to know about the situation lol.

He shows up Saturday looking like a man on the edge of something, practically vibrating, and I explained the experiment and laid out the rules, hands flat on the mattress at all times, no touching his cock, no moving, just sit there and let me work. He stripped and sat on the edge of my bed and his cock was ALREADY fully hard before I had done a single thing and I thought okay this is promising.

I had a realistic dildo ready for the association phase. Started touching both at the same time, same rhythm, same pressure, real and fake simultaneously, trying to build the neural connection the way the theory described. He was breathing like he'd sprinted somewhere just from my hands near him and his cock was dripping at the tip and I thought we were getting somewhere and then I pulled back from the real contact and worked just the dildo and his face was doing something interesting but his cock was not cumming and the experiment was not cooperating lol.

So I changed tactics. Stood up and stripped slowly right in front of him, took my absolute time about it, and his cock was jumping around and his hands were completely flat on the mattress like a desperate good boy and I was honestly impressed by the self control but STILL nothing, no cum, just this absolutely furious throbbing cock that wanted everything and was getting nothing.

I pulled the chair right up next to him, close enough that he could literally smell my pussy, and spread my legs and got two fingers inside myself and started moaning loud, like embarrassingly loud, and told him look how fucking wet you make me and imagine how tight and warm this pussy would feel wrapped around your cock and this is all for you baby and he was GOING INSANE, breathing so hard, cock absolutely soaked with his own precum, hands shaking on the mattress trying to stay still and still NOTHING, no cumming, just suffering lol.

I grabbed my vibrator and pressed it to my clit and kept going, kept moaning, kept talking dirty, my pussy completely dripping at this point and honestly I felt bad lol like his cock was RIGHT THERE and I was so wet and the experiment was clearly not working and I did not want to leave him like that so I just laughed and said okay forget the science, mouth or sit on you.

He said sit on him before I finished the sentence.

I was already so soaking wet I climbed straight on and lined his cock up and the SECOND my pussy lips touched the tip of his cock he just absolutely lost it, huge load shooting inside me before I'd even started sinking down, four days of nothing just unloading into me all at once while he made a sound that I think came from somewhere very deep and very relieved 😭

I slid all the way down anyway and let him pump everything he had left deep inside me and his cock was twitching inside my pussy while he finished and I just stayed there after rocking gently, letting him feel my warm pussy around him while he caught his breath and played with my tits and I kissed him a little because it was his first time and it felt like the right move lol.

The rubber hand illusion did not work, everything after it did. Net positive, would attempt again, also still curious if the theory holds under better conditions so if anyone has successfully done this PLEASE explain your methodology 😭