THIS is why I LOVE giving blowjobs regularly and choose to swallow for a man. For these reasons, I encourage other women to do the same

I’ve heard far too many (deserving) men say they don’t get regular (or any) blowjobs from their partners. Everybody in a relationship deserves good oral, but, not everyone enjoys or feels comfortable in giving it. I can’t relate.

THIS is why I thoroughly enjoy giving sloppy head and often choose to swallow. And there’s a little proof of it at the end after sharing my thoughts over dinner with friends.

My friendship circle, along with most people in my workplace, are active in discussing their (sometimes lack of) sex lives. Admittedly, I love the moments when the cogs turn as you talk about giving blowjobs and guys are there. Guys start to daydream about sex there and then. Girls, typically, are either of the mindset of, “yup, I relate, I’m all-in”, or, “pfft, it’s called a job for a reason.”

When you suck a guy’s cock well, he’ll remember you. I’ve heard this from men. They remember you worshipping their dick, the way you suck it, and perhaps most importantly, how you choose to take their cum.

I’m not one for flinching when heavy cumshots soak your tits or hit the back end of your throat. A big load = a big compliment. Now, you know a guy hasn’t had great head in a long time by his body language. This is one of the reasons I love giving so much. You stand out. Not everybody gives, apparently.

We’ve all had drinks that tasted far worse than cum. Plus, not every guy tastes salty. Some are sweet, neutral or even on the fruity side. Nothing seems to grab a guy’s attention and last in his memory quite like you making eye contact, say you’re on your knees, adopting one of two ‘finisher’ techniques.

Firstly, you can ask him where HE’D love to cum…

Or, alternatively, you could TELL him where you want him to cum…

Common choices are over my tits, although my personal favourite is wiggling my ass cheeks as he glazes my buns. It makes you feel like your assets are a trophy and he’s claiming it.

One choice stands above the rest, and I’m all for it. Swallowing for them. You take the percentage of men who regularly receive head. Then you take that percentage and ask how many get their cum swallowed… Very few.

Tongue out, eye contact and look that screams, “give it to me”, without hesitation.

As he finishes, seal those lips around his head, or half way down his shaft. If you’re skilled and composed with your breathing, deep throat him.

Either way, compliment his taste. Gulp it down and show him there’s none left. Guys are all about visuals. Trust me, you want to be remembered as a blowjob Queen?

Would you like proof?

Well, I shared my pretty much these thoughts, in detail, with a few friends over dinner two weeks ago. Three other couples. I had one couple both individually message me the next day. This is what I received and I loved it.

“She hasn’t swallowed for me in forever. You’re the best. I owe you a drink.”

“I forgot how much I used to enjoy sucking dick. Thanks for the prompt cutie. And I told him to message you too.”